tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4123476681787448500.post6929203880224086777..comments2023-04-27T07:55:06.203-05:00Comments on Shattered into one piece: ShameShatteredhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03522971021773946033noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4123476681787448500.post-5625557639466625392011-09-20T00:37:57.159-05:002011-09-20T00:37:57.159-05:00Shame; how many of us feel that in one way or anot...Shame; how many of us feel that in one way or another and what a hazard it is in bad/abusive parenting and adoption.It is hard to speak of, to admit to but once aired you've begun the healing.Vonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17421069895155350144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4123476681787448500.post-64523762414740775362011-09-19T22:19:43.991-05:002011-09-19T22:19:43.991-05:00Well said, Deborah. I left that crucial piece out ...Well said, Deborah. I left that crucial piece out of my comment--the shame we heap upon ourselves that is THEIRS ALONE. I am so glad you wrote that.JeannetteLShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13528285846408727632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4123476681787448500.post-32265317757924588762011-09-19T18:10:40.555-05:002011-09-19T18:10:40.555-05:00All the shame that was theirs alone has found it...All the shame that was <i> theirs alone </i> has found its expression in the child they abused. It's not yours. Tomorrow I hope you can realize that again.Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10892637441668897411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4123476681787448500.post-91011753191513184622011-09-19T13:42:22.022-05:002011-09-19T13:42:22.022-05:00Oh, how you have captured this. Your words are so ...Oh, how you have captured this. Your words are so powerful, that I hope others read this and feel less alone, and recognize the shame we heap upon ourselves.<br /><br />thank you for having the courage to be emotionally vulnerable and naked here. You are so incredibly courageous. May this week be gentle to you.JeannetteLShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13528285846408727632noreply@blogger.com