So much of my memory is in pieces. I can remember the tiniest detail of some while other are hazy bits that are stronger to my senses than anything else.
I can read a page and have a perfect picture of it in my mind. But ask me what my favorite food is and I will have no way to answer that.
I'm not really a stupid person but most of the time that is exactly how I feel. That and embarrassed.
I wake up to find crayon colored pictures scattered all over the floor of my closet.
I have clothes that I hate and have no idea where they came from.
I come into conversations midstream desperately trying to figure out what I'm supposed to say. My husband calls it my "no one's home look" where I stare off into nothing only to come back having no idea what's going on.
My husband calls me when I'm home alone and asks me what I'm doing... I have no idea because I haven't been around at all so I make up something dumb. Like giving the dogs a bath for the third time in a week.
I have curly hair but I prefer it straightened. Still others love to wear it curly and will do so whenever they have the chance.
I have to concentrate really hard to keep from referring to myself as we, us, our, etc... .
Each day I feel like I wake up watching a movie started in the middle that I've never seen before. If I pay close enough attention I can figure out most of it but I always have this nagging feeling that I'm missing something. Probably because I am.
As a kid I can see how this worked well. I could wake up, brush my teeth and go to school and function having no memory of the hellish night before.
But now it just leaves me stupid. Like when others decide that they don't want to take our medication. They spit it out, hide it or now, they throw the bottles away.
My choices to fix it: call my shrink and verify that I'm absolutely nuts; get new prescriptions filled that will cost me dearly because of how my insurance is set up; or go through the bitch of withdrawals until I can get them filled again at a normal cost.
I rarely cry but this one reduces me to tears. It shouldn't be this hard to take care of myself. I shouldn't have to be baby-sat, watched and followed up with. I'm tired of being embarrassed and I'm tired of being stupid. It shouldn't be this hard.
Hanging On No More
19 hours ago